December 15, 2020

7 Myths That Are Killing Your Chances of Having Anal Sex

Many people find anal sex to be very polarizing. Some people see it as the ultimate sexual experience, while others find it unappealing. There are many variations! Anal sex, like vaginal sex and giving your partner a blow-job is another way to have fun with your partner. There are many taboos and mystique surrounding anal sex. This is our attempt to clear the air. You might be curious about anal sex (or just want to know more! Here are seven myths that will keep you from realizing the truth.

1. You can “surprise your partner” with anal sex.

There are always good and bad surprises in life. It is not good to find a penis in your stomach. It is illegal to attempt to have anal or any other sexual contact with your partner without their consent. Yes, guys, it might seem easier to just walk down to anal-land hoping the woman won’t notice. But, trust us, she will. Big time. I don’t know how many times I have had to direct a man’s penis towards my vagina.

It was advancing toward the back door. Guys, we understand what you are trying to accomplish and we won’t be fooled by any of your “Oh sorry, wrong hole” excuses. We know it’s a stupid move and we will not tolerate it. Many people view anal sex as a very intimate sexual act. You should talk to your partner before you do it. Anal sex should not be performed if you are unable to have an open and honest conversation about it. Period.

2. Everybody wants anal sex.

It’s not true, even though porn would have us believe all women are dying to have anal sexual sex. Some women love it. Others find it difficult. Some people don’t want to go there. Your responsibility is to first talk to your partner and to respect their boundaries. You won’t get your partner to have anal sex if you try to push the topic or convince them. Anal sex is intimate and your partner might enjoy it, but may not want to do it with someone they’re just casually dating – i.e. you. It is important to talk with your partner before you do this. If they say no, don’t be offended.

3. Anal sex is a great way to spice up your sex experience.

Again, even though porn would have us believe otherwise, not all men like anal sex. It’s perfectly normal and acceptable to not like anal sex. Anal sex is enjoying a revival as more heterosexual couples embrace the practice. However, it’s not the only way you can spice up your sex life. There are many choices when it comes to sexual experiences, and anal sex is only one. If it does not feel right, there is no need to force the subject. You don’t have to like or dislike anal to be a man.

4. Anal sex can be very painful.

Anal sex can sometimes be painful, but it doesn’t have be. Anal sex isn’t as painful and uncomfortable as vaginal sex. It is important to use a lot of lube and slow down. It is important to use lube. Wetter is safer and better in this instance. You can take it slow because anal sex will be new to most people.

5. Straight men aren’t interested in being the one receiving anal sex.

WRONG! Many men love “pegging”, which is when a woman puts on a strap-on bra and enters her partner anally. It’s fine if you are a man who enjoys pegging. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you are gay. It just means you like having your prostate stimulated this way. Yes, it does feel fan-fucking-tastic according to some reliable sources. Just so you know. This is the message: Keep an open mind about anal sex.

6. Good girls won’t engage in anal sex.

Although there is still some stigma attached to anal sex it’s slowly being dismantled as more people become comfortable with the idea. There’s nothing wrong in exploring anal sexuality if it interests you. It doesn’t matter if you enjoy it or it feels good. It doesn’t matter if you like it or don’t.

7. Your body will be ruined by anal sex.

You can do serious damage to your body if you don’t perform sex correctly. It is important to take it slow and use lots of lube. To ensure a safe and enjoyable experience, make sure you review our tips before you start. What are your thoughts about anal sex. Comment below!